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Deconstructing the ego of survival
What makes ego reconstruction for growth so difficult is that the survival ego isn’t our enemy. It is a faithful servant we constructed to protect us. It was formed through experience, reinforced by pain, and strengthened every time it successfully kept us emotionally, psychologically, or physically safe. It doesn’t distinguish between a genuine threat and…
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“I’m not doing anything”
People often say, “I’m not doing anything.” But the truth is, we can never not do. Every moment is occupied by something—thinking, worrying, resting, creating, avoiding, learning, or simply being. Even stillness is an activity. The more important question isn’t whether we’re doing something, but what that something is producing. Is it moving us toward…
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Letting go – trust
There is a quiet invitation woven into life that many of us resist. It is the invitation to trust that there is an intentionality moving through existence, a deeper unfolding that does not depend entirely upon our management of it. We spend enormous amounts of energy trying to control outcomes, anticipate every possibility, and protect…
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The congruence of thought and feeling
Damaged Heart, Damaged Thinking A damaged heart often gives birth to damaged thinking. The wounds we carry—rejection, betrayal, fear, shame, loss—do not remain confined to the emotional realm. They become lenses through which we interpret reality. They shape our assumptions about ourselves, others, and even the Divine. The hurt heart begins to tell stories, and…
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The challenge I have reading scripture
One of the biggest challenges I have when reading Scripture today is trying to separate what is actually on the page from what I’ve been taught is on the page. I can’t help but wonder how much of what we “know” has been shaped by looking backward through the lens of later theology. Every generation…
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The fallacy of finitude
Imagine stepping into a vast circular courtyard surrounded by an infinite number of doorways. Standing at each doorway is someone who has devoted their life to searching for truth—a philosopher, a scientist, a theologian, a mystic, an artist, a mathematician, a poet. Every one of them is looking toward the exact same centerpiece in the…
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The power of choice
Free will is one of the most staggering responsibilities we possess. We have the freedom to think, believe, and choose our actions in countless ways. At first glance, that freedom can feel almost limitless. Yet woven into the fabric of reality are universal principles of cause and effect. No choice exists in isolation. Every decision…
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The treasure hunt
Life is something of a treasure hunt. A search for understanding that enriches our experience of being alive. Clues to this treasure are scattered throughout—in philosophy, science, spirituality, relationships, suffering, and moments of wonder. We piece these fragments together into what we call knowledge, hoping they form a map that points us toward meaning. Yet…
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Retro vision of scripture
Sacred texts have been an interest of mine for some time. The biblical text is one with which I’m more familiar. Over the years it has become clear that the lens through which scripture is translated often determines the meaning that emerges. Translation is never entirely unbiased. Every translator brings assumptions, culture, theology, and the…
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The Universe’s love language
I’m sitting here reflecting on how fortunate it is to have such meaningful connections in life. A simple awareness perhaps but it has me thinking about the importance of love in our interactions and relationships. Love seems to be the thread that transforms ordinary encounters into something lasting and life-giving. From there thoughts drifted toward…
